Self Image

I laugh at people who tell me my kids don't look alike, I laugh when people tell me that Bridget has a cleft chin and Lucas doesn't (they both do). I laugh when Lucas tells me that he wants to be Brown like Bridget so he can be a Horn like Grandpa, but I do not laugh when Lucas sees someone on the television and he says "That's Lucas, Mommy!" No, at least he is getting it right, because of the hair color but I am starting to notice something. Lucas thinks he is UGLY! Is self image taught or learned?
Examples:

Shaun White, ugly gold medalist in winter and summer games.

Pau Gasol ugliest Laker of all time (#16) Just this past Saturday he was saying during a free throw "Make the basket Lucas!"

Chuckie Finster an ugly toddler on the old Nickelodeon cartoon Rugrats.

Archie, a not so handsome Teenager who goes to the High school my father went to (really its true!), we see him at the grocery store in line.

TinTin, an ugly weird haired guy on the Cartoon Network.

Even Bridget has started, this is her favorite Little People, if I ask her whereLucas is she hold up this dude:

I am sorry if I have offended anyone but this boy is not ugly, he may have crazy orange hair but I think he is pretty darn cute, and you know what - that isn't just a mother's opinion! :)
This comparasion must have started a few years ago when Lucas was an infant, I remember flipping channels with Ali and Ethan one time and Ali said "Look Val, Nathan's on TV!" I went back and saw:

Bradley Whitford. I think he is so handome...for a red head! :) I thought to myself, I guess they really do look alike! So if Nathan looks like Bradley Whitford from West Wing, and Nathan looks like Lucas:Then what does that mean? I totally lost my train of thought! HAHA

Next on my list is to teach Lucas that Bridget isn't brown, and that no matter what we are all alike and we are all different.
Does anyone remember this book?